Wedding Coaching Services

What Our Clients Are Saying On Google

Heather Switzer

2023-10-15

Paula is Amazing! She did an amazing ceremony for it! it was beautifully personalized for us and she is the sweetest lady! Thank you Paula!!!

Phoebe Imms

2023-10-02

Paula was a wonderful addition to our wedding day. She worked so well with us in the lead up to the day, was very responsive, and made our service exactly how we wanted it. On the day she was highly professional and spoke very well - we loved our ceremony and would definitely recommend Paula's officiant services to anyone!

Brandon Stam

2023-06-17

Working with Paula was such a great experience! She was very responsive to our needs and helped provide great insights. She is a very calming presence and helped us brainstorm a ceremony that was heartfelt and unique to us as a couple. She took time to get to know us and was also willing to reach out to friends/family to get better insights. We would highly recommend working with Paula! -Brandon and Caitlyn

Angela Hammell

2023-05-10

We are so happy we had Paula as our officiant! From first meeting with Paula, to reviewing the ceremony script and picking the vows, Paula made the process so easy and stress free! While we had a few mic issues (to no fault of Paula) she did not get flustered or skip a beat which we really appreciated! The ceremony and reading were so perfect, we couldn't imagine having anyone else officiate our wedding. Thank you Paula!

Ed Frankel

2023-05-07

Paula’s guidance through our ceremony was more perfect than we could have imagined. Tailored to our preferences and edited thoughtfully, Paula was able to create the heartfelt script that has led us into a new beginning. I would absolutely recommend Paula to any friend or family in pursuit of a wedding officiant. I can’t imagine anyone else accepting the honor.

Krystal Chiquito

2023-03-06

Thank you so much Paula you are the best! From being very compassionate with your words and informing us on what is expected with our ceremony. You made our wedding day extra special with you being our officiant.

Mariah

2022-11-14

Perfect!! First meeting was so comfortable! Paula worked with us the entire time . Helped in decision making. Also was able to change the reading last minute. Really appreciate making this day the best .

Lariza Whiting

2022-10-27

Paula was wonderful and easy to work with! She did an amazing job and the ceremony was perfect!

Wedding Ceremony Consultant

So your best friend has just asked you to officiate their upcoming wedding, and you’re honored and flattered, but you have no idea where to start. Or you’re getting married and you’d love for your brother to marry you so he can be the one to say all those magical words, but you’re not sure how he’ll go about putting together a great ceremony. Where to even begin? And what needs to be included to meet the legal requirements? How do we complete the license? Yikes!

I can help.

I’ve been officiating weddings for three years, and in that time, I’ve performed more than a hundred weddings in all different venues, from backyards to ballrooms and everything in between (even a dispensary!). My number one goal is to create a ceremony that is exactly what the couple wants it to be, and I can help you and your chosen officiant to do just that.

I would love to help you create a beautiful ceremony that you will cherish forever. Contact me today!

The Process

We will have a meeting, either in person or via Google Meet, with the bridal couple and their chosen officiant. I will explain how a ceremony is normally structured and what the usual order is for all of the elements: greeting, vows, ring exchange, etc. We’ll then talk about exactly what the bridal couple wants and doesn’t want for their ceremony, such as whether or not to incorporate spiritual elements or what kinds of readings they may want included. I will then take all of that input and put together a draft of the ceremony along with notations indicating which parts are legally required and which parts are optional. I will also send several alternatives for elements such as readings, vows, etc. By the end of our meeting, you will have a good understanding of how a ceremony is structured, and you will then be able to take the draft and fine tune it to make it into the ceremony that’s perfect for you.

In short, I’ll help you organize the whole process so that it’s as easy and stress free as possible.

Pricing

For everything described above I charge a flat fee of $95, if accomplished in a one-hour (or less) meeting. (The one-hour time frame refers only to the meeting. The $95 rate also includes my time after the meeting, writing the draft.)